Mary Delgado

Mary Delgado might have a problem or two in completing the long planned marriage to her partner Byron Velvik. The former cheeleader was chosen by the bass fisherman in the second season of "The Bachelor" and they’ve been engaged ever since. Apparently on Wednesday Delgado punched Velvik in the mouth. One does have to wonder why? Is there a slight absence of committment on either side? Three years of living together without getting married isn’t all that unusual these days but perhaps one or other of them wanted to take it to the next stage and the other didn’t?

A former cheerleader for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers who was proposed
to on the reality TV show "The Bachelor" was accused of punching a man
she lives with in the mouth, authorities said.

Mary Delgado was
taken into custody just after midnight Wednesday on a battery charge
and was under the influence of alcohol when she was arrested, according
to a police affidavit.

Delgado received a proposal on the show in
2004 from professional bass fisherman Byron Velvick. The two appeared
together Tuesday in a special episode of "The Bachelor" called "After
the Final Rose."

The police affidavit does not name Delgado’s
fiance, but says the pair have lived together "as a family" for the
last three years. According to sheriff officials, Delgado was released
Wednesday afternoon.

The actual charges are domestic battery (see! it’s not only men beating women!) and, as is coyly noted, "alcohol was reportedly a factor".


On the same night that the ABC reality dating show’s After the Final Rose broadcast was trotting them out as a "success story" counterpoint to eleventh-season The Bachelor star Brad Womack‘s
decision to reject both of his final suitors, Mary Delgado was arrested
for assaulting Byron Velvick, the fiance that proposed to her at the
end of The Bachelor’s sixth season.

Delgado was arrested early Wednesday morning by Pinellas County police
and charged with domestic battery, Tampa Bay’s WFTS-TV ABC affiliate reported
Friday.  She was booked into the Pinellas County Jail around 12:30AM
Wednesday morning and was released on her own recognizance later that
afternoon, WFTS reported.

According to the Pinellas County Sheriff’s Office arrest affidavit,
Delgado hit Velvick in the face, causing a cut on his upper lip.  The
40-year-old Tampa resident subsequently admitted to striking Velvick,
WFTS reported.  The charges of domestic battery against Delgado are a
misdemeanor, according to the Pinellas County Sheriff’s Office subject
charge report.  Alcohol was reportedly a factor.

Delgado and Velvick met during filming for The Bachelor’s
Fall 2005 sixth-season, which ended with Velvick proposing marriage to
Delgado.  While the couple has yet to wed and delayed their wedding
plans several times, they’ve remained engaged over the last three years
as Velvick moved from Nevada to Tampa.

What’s most amusing is that hours before the incident they had been used as an example of a "scuccess story" on the current season of "The Bachelor" after this year’s male contestant rejected both of the female finalists.

The
morning after Mary Delgado and Byron Velvick were labeled a success
couple on Brad Womack’s ‘The Bachelor: After the Final Rose,’ Delgado
was arrested for assaulting Velvick.

 

Velvick
and Delgado appeared on ‘The Bachelor’ as an example of success after
Brad Womack rejected both of his final women. The couple said they
planned to get married in November and claimed they were very happy.

 

Apparently
something went very wrong the next morning as Delgado was arrested and
charged with domestic battery at 12:30 am at Pinellas County Jail. She
was released later that afternoon. The 40-year-old hit her fiancé’s
face, cutting his upper lip.

Guess that after show party simply contained a little too much free booze, eh?

Here’s a wire report on it

And here’s the video tape of her arrest and booking:

9 responses

  1. I hope they can work it out whether they decide to do it together or apart. It must be a bit hard since now everyone knows about it

  2. come on living together for three years and now she punches him did she find out that the other women was not the loser?

  3. If it were Byron who punch Delgado this story would be huge. Poor Delgado would be on every news program in tears lamenting their rocky relationship and how he abused her and wouldn’t marry her.
    And then it would be a made for TV movie and Delgado would become the new poster girl for domestic violence in America.
    But it wasn’t Byron that hit her. And since a man being punched in the face is funny and not “real” domestic violence there will be no interviews of Byron and how he has struggled to keep them together despite her drinking and violent behavior.
    The good news is she will surely be on Oprah to give her story soon. After all she is still the real victim here. He drove her to it.

  4. Let’s hope that Byron can see the light now and call off the engagement. If she did this once she will do it again. And heaven forbid they have children and she abuse the kids…He will be very smart if he breaks off the engagement, and cuts his losses. He is better off without her. Once they hit you they never stop.

  5. think I get it Avatar
    think I get it

    She probably hit the guy because she’s been waiting for THREE YEARS to get married and have kids, as he promised her – I’d be pissed too. She’s now 40, he’s still putting things off, and she’s losing her chance to have any kids at all. It’s a crime for her to hit him, yes, but it’s also a crime for him to promise one thing and do another – in this case, she loses out on marriage AND kids. I feel bad for her, not him.

  6. K Solberg Avatar
    K Solberg

    I think Mary will never be a bride.

  7. K Solberg Avatar
    K Solberg

    I think Mary will never be a bride.

  8. K Solberg Avatar
    K Solberg

    Oh, yes I’m sure pretty soon Mary Delgado will be appearing on t.v. and talking about what a “victim” she supposedly is, and how cruel Byron was to string her along all those years and not give her a wedding ring. Its pathetic the way some women act. No wonder so many men are avoiding marriage these days.

  9. Calm Down Avatar
    Calm Down

    Mary shouldn’t have hit Byron at all, and I hope she’s well aware of all the reasons why. Still — and this is not to excuse her in any way — there is a better way to deal with an aging commitment-phobe of a man who seems to think it’s OK to string a woman along in the twilight of her childbearing years. LEAVE HIM.
    Ladies, the simple fact is that if you’re good enough to sleep with him, cook for him, help pay bills and are WEARING AN ENGAGEMENT RING, then you are good enough to marry. Shouldn’t take three years of ‘seeing how it goes’.
    Byron is an immature milksop. I fault Mary for letting him have his cake and eat it. She should have vented her frustration by getting knocked up, so at least she has something to show for her relationship, suing the relationship slacker for child support and then packing her bags.

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